Favorite chair
Before Obi-Wan left for the sandbox, he always sat in his favorite chair, a brown leather recliner. He almost never sat anywhere else in that room. Since he’s been back, he’s been sitting in a different chair. While we were watching tv last night, it hit him that he hasn’t sat in that chair since he’s been home and he said it felt really weird. It does seem weird too. That was just “his” chair. I never sat in it when he was home and then once he left, I waited a long time before I decided to make it “my” chair. I felt strange sitting in it after he left - like I was saving it or something silly. But, then I decided to make it mine and use it all the time. Now that he’s back, he’s not in it so it’s still unofficially my chair. It’s all strange though for both of us. Much is still the same since before he left but this is one of those random things that has changed since he’s been home. ![]()
Filed under: Changes, Husband, Mindless drivel

I have no idea where we sat before he left. huh. interesting. But I have clearly marked my territory now. and so far, so good with me retaining it.